Friday, June 22, 2018

SUFFER THE LITTLE CHILDREN

This is the message, hidden or not, FLOTUS just gave to thousands of children incarcerated who are separated from their mothers:













This is why we care, Melania:












"In the first few days after separation, the children are expected to protest by crying and acting out in ways that 
reflect a desperate effort to secure the return of their
parents. Within a few weeks, they appear to lapse into 
despair, seemingly without hope for a returning parent. 
They show little energy or motivation to play and explore.
After less than a month or so, Bowlby observed that the children “seem detached,” Van IJzendoorn said. If the parents return, the children seem aloof and avoid the parents’ efforts to comfort and cuddle.
“It might take some months of careful, sensitive interactions to repair the damage done to the attachment relationship of the child,” Van IJzendoorn said. “The parents have failed the child, and he or she has lost trust in his or her attachment figures, and the wider social world seems hostile. … Their basic trust has been damaged.” 
-the LA TIMES

Sunday, June 17, 2018

THE INHUMANE POLICY OF SEPARATING IMMIGRANT CHILDREN FROM THEIR PARENTS



"WASHINGTON ― Attorney General Jeff Sessions seems

to think Jesus would love his policy of separating immigrant
families at the border.
Christian leaders say otherwise.
“While protecting our borders is important, we can and must do
better as a government, and as a society, to find other ways to
ensure that safety,” Cardinal Daniel Nicholas DiNardo, president
of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, said in a statement.”
Separating babies from their mothers is not the answer and is
immoral.”- cnn news

Mr.Trump can blame the Democrats and Mr. Sessions can justify his deplorable
detainment by quoting the Bible but separating immigrant children from their 
families is just plain immoral. The stories of bereft toddlers crying inconsolably 
for their mothers, children horribly frightened with separation anxiety,
and babies being taken from their mothers while nursing, are
institutional child abuse. Below is the same reaction from
The American Academy of Pediatrics:

"In a newly released policy statement, the Academy urges that
immigrant and refugee children be treated with dignity and
respect, with care that supports their health and well-being.
Amid turmoil caused by new federal executive orders targeting
immigrants and refugees and calling for vast expansions to the 
detention of immigrants, the American Academy of Pediatrics has 
called for the U.S. government to protect vulnerable children who
are fleeing violence and poverty from being traumatized.

Immigrant children seeking safe haven in the United States should
never be placed in detention facilities, regardless of whether they 
arrive alone or are accompanied by an adult, according to a new
policy statement published by the American Academy of 
Pediatrics (AAP). Children should never be separated from their
families, according to the statement.

The policy statement recommends that immigrant children be treated 
with dignity and respect, and urges that they not be exposed to 
conditions that may further harm or traumatize them. The statement,
"Detention of Immigrant Children," to be published in the April 2017
issue of Pediatrics (online March 13) reports that the Department of 
Homeland Security facilities for temporary housing of immigrants do 
not meet basic standards regarding the care of children in residential 
settings.

"Many of the immigrant children arriving to this country from our 
southern border are victims of unspeakable violence, persecution,
and abject poverty," said Fernando Stein, MD, FAAP, president of
 the AAP. 
"From the moment they are placed in U.S. custody, they deserve
a warm, safe and nurturing environment. They should receive
health care that meets basic standards."

The AAP policy statement, "Detention of Immigrant Children," is
being published at a time of increased fear, anxiety, and uncertainty
among immigrant families. The AAP opposes the recent call for major 
expansions in family detention, among other actions, that have been
included in Executive Orders signed by President Trump. 

"We are hearing reports about children who have been detained, even
for a short time, who are showing symptoms of post-traumatic stress
disorder, anxiety, depression and behavioral problems," said Marsha 
Griffin, MD, FAAP, co-author of the policy statement and co-chair of the 
AAP Immigrant Health Special Interest Group. "There is no evidence 
that spending any time in detention is safe for children. Parents, too, 
may be traumatized by the isolating conditions, making it difficult for 
them to respond to their children's needs." 
-The American Academy of Pediatrics

I urge everyone to join me by emailing the President to protest this
incredibly inhumane and abusive treatment of immigrant children. 

Monday, April 30, 2018

The Case of the Missing White House Tree


In a united gesture of goodwill, Trump and President Macron planted a tree on the White House grounds. Now it has mysteriously gone missing. What happened to this icon of hope? Here are the current conspiracy theories as to what happened to it:

-Scott Pruitt was worried planting a tree might somehow lead to a discussion on climate change and had it redacted.

-Secretary of the Interior Ryan Zinke sold it to one of his lumber lobbyists.

-The lone French tree knew Trump's immigration policy would have it deported eventually. Knowing it had a better chance at surviving where it came from, it booked the first plane back to Paris.

-Melania had it dug up, flocked, and stored for her next Halloween-like Christmas extravaganza.

-Michael Cohen is secretly representing the tree which means the New York Attorney General's office has secured it as evidence.

-The chilly environmental policies of the Trump administration froze it to death.

-Sarah Huckabee Sanders claims there never was any tree. It was all just fake news.

-Jeff Sessions has recused himself from the investigation so we may never know what really happened to it.

-Eric Trump cut it up and mounted for a trophy. After all, it was on the endangered species list.

-White supremacists cut it down protesting the opening of the Peace and Justice Museum.

-Trump and Macron's bromance upset Pence so much he feared the tree was gay and had it put in a closet.

-Trump suspected the tree was actually a Comey plant and had it fired.

-The tree was not big enough to provide enough wood to burn Stormy, along with Trump's other embarrassing sexual liaisons, at the stake. Can you say kindling?


-After Macron's surprising diss of Trump's policies in front of Congress, Trump had the tree sent to Guantanamo.

-Michelle Wood's brutal take down of Trump at the White House Correspondents' Dinner soured him on all things wood. Guilt by association led to its mysterious disappearance.



Thursday, April 26, 2018

TIME'S UP BILL COSBY


"Bill Cosby Found Guilty in Sexual-Assault Trial, the First Major Conviction of #MeToo Era

Cosby, 80, faces 30 years in prison after he was convicted on all counts of drugging and assaulting Andrea Constand—one of more than 60 women who say he raped them." -The Daily Beast

"Rape is the most under-reported crime; 63% of sexual assaults are not reported to police." -nsvrc.org

Graphic demonstrating that out of 1000 rapes, 994 perpetrators will walk free. Out of every 1,000 rapes, 310 are reported to the police, 57 reports lead to arrest, 13 cases get referred to prosecutors, 7 cases will lead to a felony conviction, 6 rapists will be incarcerated.



Sunday, April 22, 2018

REST IN PEACE BARBARA BUSH



Good bye Barbara Bush. We will miss your strength, honesty, and no nonsense approach to life. Thank you for always reminding us to thrive. Rest in peace.

Here are a few of Mrs. Bush's memorable quotes:

"At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent."

"Never lose sight of the fact that the most important yardstick of your success will be how you treat other people - your family, friends, and coworkers, and even strangers you meet along the way."

"If human beings are perceived as potentials rather than problems, as possessing strengths instead of weaknesses, as unlimited rather that dull and unresponsive, then they thrive and grow to their capabilities."

Sunday, March 25, 2018

TALKING TO THE DEAD


It has now been more than six months since the sudden and unexpected death of my closest friend, Robyn. Personally I've hated the term 'closest friend' because she was, in reality, more like a twin sister. Losing her in a lightning flash has been tough-the hardest death I've had to grieve in decades. For the last half year I have been haunted by this punch to the heart, dealing with the major and minor changes this beloved woman's passing has created.

We no longer exist in a society which recognizes the extent loss affects us. Grieving the death of a loved one is something technology cannot ameliorate. The intensity of this process is unpredictable, persistent, and exposes a raw vulnerability you may have never withstood. Though I am quite familiar with loss, this one has been especially hard to grieve.

To honor my psychic twin, I found comfort in creating a shrine for her in my living room. I see Robyn's shrine daily. For awhile I would say the Phowa prayer for her but then I just started talking to her. It seems odd to talk to a picture, but the more I did the better I felt about her passing. Sometimes I will just tell her about my day and other times I ask her what advice she has for me in situations where I feel stuck. She doesn't answer but that does not matter. What matters is, as I mourn her not physically being here she is there in spirit. It helps me remember those inspiring times we had together and what made her an indispensable friend. Whenever I feel overwrought by her death, I look at her shrine I can almost hear her voice telling me it is going to be okay. 

Talking to the dead is not something I would speak about openly. One can be put in psychiatric jeopardy admitting something like this. Even though my other friends are sympathetic to my loss, I frequently feel acknowledging my continued sorrow bores them to tears. It's almost as if I can telepathically hear them say, "move on". But one does not move on so easily when your heart is shattered and a forged bond has been severed.

I know there will come a time when my grieving will ease and I will 'move forward' with less heartache. Until then I will continue to talk to Robyn.

Watching the 'March for Our Lives' yesterday gave me hope. All those bright young people grappling with ineffable shock were able put a voice to the tragedy of death by senseless murder. They, too, were talking not only to the living but also to their deceased classmates. I was especially impressed by 11 year old Naomi Wadler representing girls of color who died and never made 'front page news'. Their grief is still fresh yet they had the where with all to galvanize their sorrow into action. By speaking for the dead they honor all those who have fell victim to gun violence. Who knew talking to the dead could create a revolution?